Far too many people worry about what other people think of them. Instead of living their life on their own terms doing things that bring them joy and happiness, their primary motivation is to impress others. This determines the kind of car they drive, the clothes they wear, the neighborhood they live in and so forth. Some people have even chosen a career based on other people’s expectations only to wind up being miserable in their job. As ancient Chinese Taoist philosopher Lao Tzu put it, “Care about what other people think, and you will always be their prisoner.” Life as a prisoner cannot make us happy, it only brings us feelings of inadequacy and disappointment. So, listen to your inner voice. Do what makes you happy and forget about what others think.

One Sentence Wisdom

• “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” — Eleanor Roosevelt
• “Never dull your shine for somebody else.” — Tyra Banks

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