Volunteering Benefits the Volunteer in a number of Important Ways

Opportunities abound for us to volunteer our time at churches, non-profit social service agencies, hospitals and schools. Volunteers derive a great deal of satisfaction from their efforts because those efforts are usually directed at making someone’s day a little bit happier, brighter or easier. This, in turn, provides volunteers with a sense of purpose and…

Successful People Fail far more often than Unsuccessful People

The reason is that they understand that failure is the pathway to success. The process goes something like this: Successful people try something, fail and then learn from their failure. This makes them smarter than they were before they failed. They try again, fail and learn more about what they’re trying to accomplish. They continue…

Advice for Being a Good Conversationalist

An article by Elizabeth Bernstein, which recently appeared in The Wall Street Journal, contained some excellent advice for being a good conversationalist. First, ask lots of questions. According to the article, “People love to talk about themselves and often will think you are a great conversationalist if you talk about them and not yourself.” For…

One Lesson That Business Leaders Don’t Seem to Grasp

The lesson is this: “Treat your employees right and they’ll treat your customers right which, in turn, makes the business successful.” Recently, JetBlue and Southwest Airlines were rated numbers one and two respectively in terms of customer satisfaction and were head and shoulders above the rest of the airline industry. The reason is that the…

An Easy Way to Avoid Criticism

Recently, my wife shared an Aristotle quote with me about avoiding criticism: “Criticism is something we can easily avoid by saying nothing, doing nothing and being nothing.” The lesson here is that if you live your life to avoid criticism, you’ll wind up living an empty and meaningless life.

Giving up on Your Dream has No Upside

Sometimes, when you’re pursuing your dream, the going gets tough. When this happens, it’s very tempting to say something like, “This is way too hard; maybe I should give up.” The problem with giving up is that achieving your dream might be just around the corner, but you’ll never know if you throw in the…