There are times when we feel wronged or inconvenienced and want to tell somebody off or give them a piece of our mind because it would make us feel so good to do so. In reality, all you gain by such behavior is an enemy who is looking for a chance to get back at you and is actively telling others about how you made them feel—both of which make your life less happy and more difficult.
Author and human behavior expert, Tom Rath, was asked this question asked by Jenniffer Weigel in an article which was posted on chicagotribune.com. In other words, what can we do right now that will immediately improve how we feel about things?
David R. Henson made a post to his blog that that grabbed my attention, and I would like to share part of it with you. “Studies show that spending time counting our blessings, keeping a gratitude journal, or writing letters of thanksgiving to our family, friends and mentors is one of the most reliable ways to lift our mood and transform our outlook on life….
Helen Gurley Brown once said, “The only thing that separates successful people from those that aren’t is the willingness to work very, very hard.” In other words, successful people persist–they stay the course in pursuing their goals long after most other people have given up and quit.
My wife and I recently hosted a dinner party. Among the guests were four couples who didn’t know each other. As they arrived, we made sure we introduce them. When it was time to eat dinner, these four couples decided to sit at the same table and seemed to be enjoying each other’s company.
A few years ago, one of my daughters was experiencing a lot of stress as many parents of young children do. My sister-in-law saw that she really needed a break and offered to take the kids for a Saturday afternoon. It was right before Halloween, so she got all the supplies for a “spooky” treat making event.
“The Simplest Acts of Kindness Are by Far More Powerful Than a Thousand Heads Bowing in Prayer” The above is a quote from Mahatma Gandhi. I’ve done a lot of thinking after reading this quote and I’m curious as to what your reaction is. Please use the following email link to share your opinion: ross@rossreck.com.…
My wife Marcia went to Costco the other day to pick up a few things. After she paid for her items and was getting ready to exit the store, she noticed that the line to get the receipt checked was really backed up.
I came across a powerful quote by motivational speaker Jay Danzie that sums up how other people see us: “Your smile is your logo, your personality is your business card, how you leave others feeling after having an experience with you becomes your trademark.”
We’ve all heard the saying, “The squeaky wheel gets the grease.” In other words, if you raise a fuss or make a lot of noise, you’re going to be taken better care by the person trying to solve your problem. I was sitting in a waiting room recently getting ready to see a doctor when a person came in who was not in the best of moods.