I read an article recently that was written by Lauren Paige Kennedy which contained a list of tips from Queen Latifah for leading the good life.  The tip that really caught my eye was attract love.  Ms. Latifah said, “You have to not seek it.  You have to be it.  Love yourself first.  It will come to you naturally.  You don’t have to fake it.  You don’t have to be needy.   Be open.  And don’t judge the package it comes in.”  When you attract love, you surround yourself with people who really care about you.  These are the people who pick you up when you’re down, who cheer you on when you feel like you’re running out of gas and who are truly happy for you when you succeed.  We would all live the good life if we followed the Queen’s advice: we attract love by giving love and it starts with loving ourselves.