PRAM: The Universal Formula – Relationships

Once you’ve established your Win-Win Plan, you come to a step in the Win-Win Negotiation process that is often ignored: the development of Win-Win personal relationships.  Developing these relationships is critical because people are very willing to go that extra mile for someone they like and trust.  On the other hand, people will rarely stick…

PRAM: The Universal Formula – Plans

The first step in the Win-Win Negotiation process is the development of a Win-Win Plan.  The essence of a Win-Win Plan answers the question: “What can I do for the person I’m about to deal with that will motivate that person to give me what I want in return?”  I used to think that negotiation…

Win-Win Negotiating: The Win-Win Philosophy

The idea behind the Win-Win Philosophy is that I get what I want by helping others get what they want and vice versa.  In a true Win-Win sales transaction, both parties come away feeling very good about the deal they have just concluded.  Both are likely to follow through on their respective promises, to look…

Planning for Positive Results – Introduction

Several years ago, I had the opportunity to listen to a speech given by the vice-president of marketing for a large food manufacturing and distribution company.  As he talked about his company’s retail cookie division, he pointed out that this segment of the company had lost money for the last three years in a row. …

Positioning Yourself for Success

When I speak of highly successful people, I’m not referring to people who inherited their wealth or people whose lottery ticket happened to hit.  Rather, I’m talking about people like you and me who are responsible for their own success—however each of us chooses to define success.  In doing the research for this book, whenever…

PRAM: The Universal Formula – Agreements

Once the relationship is in place, the next step in the process is forming a Win-Win Agreement.  In it I offer to give you what you want in exchange for your giving me what I want.  What’s important to note here is that if the first two steps of the Win-Win process have been executed…