This is the first half of a quote that a friend of mine posted on Facebook. What this means is that the way you make others feel after they’ve interacted with you is your trademark—the distinguishing characteristic of how you become known. As Maya Angelou put it, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you…
The website happy-whole.com posted the following list of things you don’t need to apologize for. I couldn’t argue with any of them, so I’m passing them on to you. If you have any things you’d like to add to the list, please send them to me. Loving someone Saying “no” Following your dreams Taking “me”…
Since the 1990s, longevity expert and author, Dan Buettner, has been traveling with teams of researchers to areas around the world where people live the longest. His teams have studied how lifestyle and environment impact the length of people’s lives. According to an article which appeared in USA Today, “Buettner says that while a strong…
A friend sent me a document titled “Life from the Seat of a Tractor.” It contained 30 excellent bullet points on how to live a better life. I’d like to share some of them with you. Life is simpler when you plow around the stump. Words that soak into your ears are whispered…not yelled. You cannot…
Many people prefer comfort of security over the excitement of taking risks. They would rather sit inside the safety of their comfort zones and watch the world go by. As a result, they miss out on much of the good life. Blind and deaf American author and political activist Helen Keller understood this well.…
One of my daughters recently emailed a quote to me that read, “Happy people are those who continuously evaluate and improve themselves. Unhappy people are those who continuously evaluate others.” What this means is that happy people are focused on personal growth–trying and learning new things, going to new places and making new friends. For…
All of us have dreams, but not everyone’s dream comes true. The question is, why? The song, When You Wish Upon a Star provides two important insights necessary to answer this question. First, as the song says, “When your heart is in your dream, no request is too extreme.” Having your heart in your…
There’s so much in our world that needs fixing that it’s easy to become overwhelmed and wonder if it’s actually possible for us to make a difference. My wife sent me the following quote from Clarissa Pinkola Estes which deals with this very thought: “Anything you do from the soulful self will help lighten…
A friend made the following post on Facebook. I have no idea who authored this, but I think it’s excellent advice. Become friends with people who aren’t your age. Hang out with people whose first language isn’t the same as yours. Get to know someone who doesn’t come from your social class. This is how…
Tracy Myers is an extremely successful used car dealer and one of the happiest and most energetic people I know. His television commercials are hilarious and he’s always posting positive messages on Facebook. As it turns out, some people don’t like it when others post a steady stream of positive messages on Facebook. Here’s what…