Brain

Six Things Mentally Strong People Do

A friend of mine posted this on Facebook. I think it’s sound advice for living your life fully, comfortably, and successfully. They move on. They don’t waste time feeling sorry for themselves. They embrace change. They welcome challenges. They stay happy. They don’t waste energy on things they can’t control. They are kind, fair and…

Gasoline

Kindness Brings You Joy

Last Friday I stopped at a gas station to fill my car with gas. As swiped my credit card, a station attendant walked past me to the other side of the pump. A commotion followed and I heard the station attendant exclaim, ‘Why does all this happen on a Friday?’.

Easter

The More We Measure the Less We Live

I found the following post by Craig Worst on a Facebook Page titled, Days of Gratitude. “We have been conditioned to believe that setting goals and measuring everything we do will bring us happiness, peace, and success. While this may be true for ‘material happiness,’ the opposite is true for ‘authentic happiness,’ Stop measuring the…

Be Kind

People Remember Kind People

This past week I went back to the same restaurant that I mentioned in last week’s Reminder where I had the kind interactions with the server who no one else seemed to notice. It had been three weeks since this server had waited on our group, and it was only the second time I’d ever…

Waitress

You Have to Think to be Kind

Recently, I attended an evening meeting held in a private dining room at a local restaurant. There were about 20 of us sitting around a large table discussing various subjects and only one server to take care of us. This server was trying very hard to meet everyone’s needs and after a while she began…

Grateful

Try Leaving a Trail of Gratitude on Your Daily Trips

One of the most deep-seated needs among human beings is the need to be appreciated. This need is so strong that people crave appreciation almost as much as they crave food. This means that if you satisfy this need, people will absolutely love you for it. So, try leaving a trail of gratitude on your…

Steps

Advice on How to Succeed Hasn’t Changed Over the Years

I recently came across an article that I had filed away several years ago. The Arizona Republic had held a networking breakfast to honor current and former winners of its “35 Entrepreneurs 35 and Younger” competition. Laurie Merrill, who was a writer for the Republic at the time, asked some of the attendees to share their advice for…

Vision - Magnifying Glass

Vision Plus Action Equals Success

Succeeding at a high level requires two essential ingredients: vision and action. Vision is the picture in your mind of the future you want to create or the dream you want to come true. If you read the biography of any highly successful person, you’ll find their journey to success started with a clear vision…

Feelings

Staying Humble is the Key to Sustaining Success

There’s a very seductive trap that people often fall into when they become successful. It goes something like this: Success eventually leads to arrogance where people become full of themselves and their success. They act as if they know everything, and anything that contradicts what they believe is either evaded or rejected out of hand.…