Winners Make Things Happen While Average People Make Excuses

Over the last several years, I have been talking with someone who is not particularly happy with how he’s doing financially.  It turns out that he’s one of those people who’s extremely knowledgeable about sports—especially football.  On several occasions I have suggested that he start a newsletter to share his vast knowledge with other interested…

Turning Back Is Not An Option

Craig Wilson of USA Today recently wrote a column titled, ‘You Can’t Turn Back Now…’ He was visiting a friend in a small coastal town in Maine and decided to take a walk. The path he chose was along a cliff overlooking the ocean and turn out to be more challenging than he had anticipated.…

Nature Is A Great Stress Reliever

Not long ago, I was feeling stressed out and in need of some fast relief.  So, I went to one of my favorite places located about two hours from my home.  It’s located on the edge of a cliff at about 7,000 feet above sea level.  It’s almost always breezy up there and it overlooks…

Risk Taking Rarely Ends With Regrets

Bestselling author and business man, Harvey Mackay, wrote an excellent column recently dealing with risk taking and regret.  According to Mr. Mackay, people rarely regret taking risks; what they do regret is not taking them sooner or not taking them at all.  He goes on to say, “Afraid to try something new?  Most of us…

Seeing A Glass As Being Half-Full Is Very Good For Your Health

Optimists are those people who have a positive outlook on life.  They’re the ones who see the glass as being half-full instead of half-empty.  And, if life sends them lemons, instead of feeling sorry for themselves, they find a way to make lemonade.  Numerous studies have shown that optimists enjoy some very important health benefits…

Don’t Get Into An Age Rut

Most people tend to hang out with people who are roughly their same age – and for good reason.  Their children are probably close to the same ages, they grew up in the same era and remember many of the same historical events; so there’s a certain comfort level associated with doing this.  As comfortable…

Service Is Love Made Visible

In his commencement speech to the graduating class at Northwestern University, comedian Stephen Colbert had some very interesting things to say about love and service.  “In my experience, you will truly serve only what you love, because as the prophet says, service is love made visible.  If you love friends, you will serve your friends.…

Denzel Washington On Taking Risks

Actor Denzel Washington was the commencement speaker recently at the University of Pennsylvania.  He had the following advice for the graduating class: “I’ve found that nothing in life is worthwhile unless you take risks.  Nothing.  Nelson Mandela said, ‘There is no passion to be found in playing small – in settling for a life that’s…

Advice From A Modern Day Hero: Show Up For Your Life

Chesley “Sully” Sullenberger is the retired U.S. Airways pilot who on January 15, 2009, successfully landed his Airbus A320 aircraft in the Hudson River after it hit a flock of large birds which disabled both engines.  Recently he was the commencement speaker at Purdue University.  His talk contained some very solid advice for living a…