Whenever I ask people how they are going to deal with a particular problem if it were ever to occur in the future, the response you often hear is, “I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it.” In other words, I’ll deal with that problem if it occurs, but I don’t want to be…
The other night, I was watching a major league baseball player being interviewed on television after he had pitched a particularly good game. Early in his career, he had not pitched well and now he is pitching very well. When the interviewer asked him what it was that caused the change in his performance, he…
The above is a quote from Art Fettig, my 80-plus year old friend who is a motivational speaker, author, philosopher and actor: www.artfetig.com. I think his quote makes an excellent point. Having something on our horizon that’s going to stretch us and make us grow is one of the things that makes getting out of bed…
Several summers ago, on a whim, my wife and I decided to plant some melons in our vegetable garden since vegetables don’t do well in the Arizona summer heat. We also planted them in the open spaces in our flower gardens. It turned out to be one of the best gardening things we’ve ever done.…
My youngest daughter landed a job teaching second grade this year. It’s the perfect job for her since she loves young children and she loves to teach. For the past two weeks, she has been working 12 hour days getting her classroom ready for the school year to start. All the while she has a…
It’s no secret that as we get older, our brain function often declines. According to an article written by Anne Ryman that recently appeared in The Arizona Republic, a research study at Arizona State University found “…that older honeybees turned back the clock on brain aging when they took on new duties, such as caring…
While electronic communication makes it possible for us to exchange information rapidly, it falls short when it comes to the caring and feeding of personal relationships. Relationships occur between two people and people need periodic personal touches from the other person if the relationship to remain vibrant. If your relationships are well maintained and you…
It’s a fact of life; if you follow the crowd, you’ll never be highly successful. On the other hand, the minute you step away from the crowd, you invite criticism-people judge you and make disparaging remarks about your ideas and dreams which can be hurtful. So, how do you deal with criticism? The answer is…
The above is a quote from Ralph Waldo Emerson. These three short sentences form the foundation for a happy and meaningful life. Be Silly tells us to relax, have fun and let our foolish side show itself once in a while. Be Honest tells us to be comfortable with whom we are and let our…
One of my daughters recently emailed a quote to me that read, “Happy people are those who continuously evaluate and improve themselves. Unhappy people are those who continuously evaluate others.” What this means is that happy people are focused on personal growth–trying and learning new things, going to new places and making new friends. For…