Live Life on Your Own Terms; Not Someone Else’s

A quote from a recent addition of Art Fettig’s Monday Morning Memo caught my attention. The quote was from Steve Jobs and it went, “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of…

The Time to be Happy is now

There’s no time like the present to be happy because the present is all we have. Furthermore, self-indulgent things and experiences don’t make us happy. Rather, our happiness is the byproduct of the actions we take to make others happy. These can be simple little things like complementing people on what they’re wearing of something…

Giving up on Your Dream has No Upside

Sometimes, when you’re pursuing your dream, the going gets tough. When this happens, it’s very tempting to say something like, “This is way too hard; maybe I should give up.” The problem with giving up is that achieving your dream might be just around the corner, but you’ll never know if you throw in the…

I’ll Cross that Bridge When I come to it

Whenever I ask people how they are going to deal with a particular problem if it were ever to occur in the future, the response you often hear is, “I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it.” In other words, I’ll deal with that problem if it occurs, but I don’t want to be…

Happiness Is Having Something Challenging Pending

The above is a quote from Art Fettig, my 80-plus year old friend who is a motivational speaker, author, philosopher and actor: www.artfetig.com. I think his quote makes an excellent point. Having something on our horizon that’s going to stretch us and make us grow is one of the things that makes getting out of bed…