When someone does something to make you angry, the last thing on your mind is to be kind to that person. In reality, it should be the first and for a very important reason: doing so cancels out your anger and brings you back to normal. Let me illustrate with an example. An article which…
Over the years I’ve had a number of people ask me: “How do I go about the business of finding my passion–something I can get truly excited about?” Each of these people had the idea that finding their passion was like walking through a cafeteria line and picking something out that seemed interesting. In reality,…
Over the years, I’ve come across a number of people who can’t admit it when they’ve made a mistake. Instead of admitting their mistake and taking responsibility for it, they blame others. They seem to think admitting a mistake is a sign of personal weakness. In reality, being able to admit our mistakes is a…
I had just boarded my connecting flight and was headed home. As I settled into my seat, I looked up and saw a famous business author/speaker and his wife board the plane. The two had not been seated together, so the author/speaker asked the gentleman across the aisle if he would trade seats with his…
Some of the happiest people I know are the ones who never stop learning or trying new things. Instead they continue to grow as they move through life by saying “yes” to the many opportunities that life sends their way. They understand that in life, you either move forward or backward. There is no such…
One of the biggest myths on the planet is: When I get what I want, I’ll be happy. This implies that happiness is a state that can be arrived at and that it can be achieved by focusing only on one’s self. In reality, the opposite is true. You can only achieve true happiness by…
Sometimes people choose to pass on many of the opportunities that life sends their way because they’re afraid—they don’t know where the opportunity is going to take them. This is unfortunate, because saying “yes” to opportunities is part of what it means to live life fully. Furthermore, not knowing where an opportunity is going to…
All of us have experienced times when we’re feeling down, depressed and unhappy. During such episodes, there is a tendency for us to focus on ourselves; thinking only of our problems, our troubles, and our misfortunes—a behavior pattern that prolongs our feeling down. On the other hand, the quickest way to take yourself out of…
If there is one characteristic that sets successful people apart, it’s persistence—the willingness to hang in there when it comes to pursuing a goal or dream. If you look at successful people throughout history, very few were overnight successes. Instead, they were persistent—they made lots of mistakes and encountered many obstacles, but they didn’t quit.…
Television commentator Charles Kuralt once said, “Great things are not accomplished by those who yield to trends, fads and popular opinion.” Dale Carnegie put it this way, “The person who goes farthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare. The sure-thing boat never gets far from shore.” In other words, to…